To Guilt or Not to Guilt

I find it really unfair when people try to guilt you into doing something that you have planned for because it is not convenient for their schedule or for what they want to do/don't want to do. 


Both of my boys were sick in the past 2 days.  One on Monday and the other on Tuesday.  Now the big one, a.k.a. my husband, is sick and is acting more like a baby than the other two!  Amazing...If I was sick this morning, I still would have gotten the kids ready, myself together and helped out with whatever I could.  Nope, not the case this morning with my third, largest child.  Fine - I'm over that now.  BUT I have a haircut appointment that will take, what, an hour?? 


"Oh, you have your hair cut tonight, huh?"


"Yes, I should be home by about 7:30. OK?"


"Yeah, I guess so."


UGH....